Family Values, Or Hypocrisy?
I’m all in favor of family values -- things like home, marriage, family. They sound like a great idea. Lately however, I’m wondering if I’ve had it all wrong; or is it someone else that has it wrong?
For years we have been told, by Republicans, they represent “the party of family values.” No kidding! Karl Rove even insisted Republicans campaign on moral and religious issues. After all, they have to run against the evil, hedonistic and Godless “liberals.” It would appear however, that is coming back to haunt them, and big time! Suddenly, here we are again, drawn into the midst of just one more Republican sex scandal, perhaps the one that will “break the camels back,” and there appears to be no end in sight.
Today, it is Senator Larry Craig (R-ID), arrested in June for allegedly soliciting a plainclothes police officer, who was at the time investigating complaints of lewd behavior in a public restroom at a Minnesota airport. Craig later pleaded guilty to misdemeanor disorderly conduct, but now claims it was all a “misunderstanding.” Imagine pleading guilty in such a situation, especially as a US Senator, and one who has been suspected of such behavior in the past. The only likely misunderstanding was that he didn’t believe it would later become public.
Even as I type, listening to the TV in the background, I hear Senator Craig telling his side of the story. Some of the clips I’m catching in the background include “I did nothing wrong…In June I overreacted and made a wrong decision…I chose to plead guilty to a lesser charge in hopes of making it go away…I am not gay, I never have been gay…I regret the decision to plead guilty…Furthermore I should have not kept this arrest from my friends. I should have told my family and my friends about it,” and, of course, he believes he should have spoken to an attorney.
I’d imagine an innocent person in such a situation would have disclosed at the time “I didn’t do anything wrong.” I don't think that person, knowing themself to be innocent, would later state, I should have gotten a lawyer. And I sincerely doubt they would have still been "overreacting" almost a month after the arrest, as they went to court, plead guilty to a lesser charge while still having not gotten any advice from their family or friends. Would you plead guilty if you really didn’t mean it? This sounds like a major Doooh to me!
Craig says he has not yet decided whether or not he will run again for office, apparently waiting to see how the dust will settle. I predict, considering the evidence already released, coupled with such a puzzling public denial, he will not even finish his latest term, nonetheless run for another. Hardball’s Chris Matthews said Craig stands to expose himself as a “deviate and world class hypocrite.” Perhaps Matthews is referring to the fact that Craig has voted in Congress against gay marriage, against gays and lesbians in the military, and against abortion, and seems himself to hold his own behavior to a different standard.
But I’m digressing from the main point, which is the extraordinarily long and recent string of such scandals. Unfortunately, this is just the last known incident involving our “family value” leaders.
Just recently, Senator David Vitter (R-LA), a regional chairman for Rudy Giuliani’s presidential campaign was linked with the “DC Madam’s” escort service. Vitter later said, "This was a very serious sin in my past for which I am, of course, completely responsible. Several years ago, I asked for and received forgiveness from God and from my wife in confession and marriage counseling."
This wasn’t the first setback to Giuliani’s campaign. A month earlier, South Carolina Treasurer Thomas Ravenel, the state chairman for his campaign, had been indicted on federal cocaine charges.
Florida State Representative Bob Allen was arrested for allegedly offering sex for money to an undercover police officer in a Titusville city park. Allen quickly resigned as one of Senator John McCain’s (R-AZ) top political strategists.
On September 21, 2006, Congressman Mark Foley, Chairman of the House Caucus on Missing and Exploited Children, resigned because he was accused of sending sexually explicit messages to minors. Soon thereafter in a statement he said, “I am deeply sorry and I apologize for letting down my family and the people of Florida I have had the privilege to represent.”
Later in 2006, and according to CNN, “The Rev. Ted Haggard agreed Saturday to resign as leader of the megachurch he started in his basement more than 20 years ago after its independent investigative board said he was guilty of "sexually immoral conduct." After a few weeks of intensive therapy, Haggard reassured us he is “completely heterosexual.” Sound familiar?
We all recall the Randy “Duke” Cunningham (R-NM) scandal that rocked the nation in 2005. Besides receiving huge sums of money for political favors, it was also alleged that he had been trading favors for sex. Besides being sentenced to prison, Cunningham has also been sentenced to receiving his $40,000 Congressional pension at the taxpayer’s expense. Go figure!
And of course, the story goes well beyond sex and sexuality, it strikes at the very center of the core issue, which is, of course, power and corruption.
Michael Kinsley posted an interesting article on December 2005 entitled “Corrupt Intentions: What Cunningham’s Misdeeds Illustrate About Conservative Washington. In it he states, “By the 20th anniversary of their arrival, when an intellectually corrupt Supreme Court ruling gave them complete control of the government at last, the conservatives had lost any stomach for tearing down the government. George W. Bush's "compassionate conservatism" was more like an apology than an ideology. Meanwhile Tom DeLay—the real boss in Congress—openly warned K Street that unless all the choice lobbying jobs went to Republicans, lobbyists could not expect to have any influence with the Republican Congress. This warning would be meaningless, of course, unless the opposite was also true: If you hire Republican lobbyists, you and they will have influence over Congress. And darned if DeLay didn't turn out to be exactly right about this!”
I love that reference to Bush and “compassionate conservatism.”
This article in it’s entirety can be viewed at http://www.slate.com/id/2131370/
It comes as no shock to me there is a large iceberg out there with sexual indiscretion occupying only the tip. This is a story as old as human history.
What is really puzzling, is how and why so many Americans continue to allow those running for, and holding office in this nation, to talk the walk, without requiring them to walk that talk. How many scandals will it take, before some people realize they are being lied to, and not just once, but over and over? Men are human; I don’t expect them to be otherwise. As long as they continue to be guided by their lower brain, sex and scandals will remain linked. This doesn’t concern me; I understand it, and don’t judge the behavior to be all that unusual, considering the source. What I do take exception with is the chronic and habitual predilection for hypocrisy in our leaders and those that aspire to leadership!
I resent people pretending to be moral by the standards of our Judeo-Christian ethic in order to get the support of others, all the while not holding themselves to those standards. I further resent these people creating the illusion they represent some moral high ground, so they can bash their opponents in order to beat them up at election time. And, I don’t like that they hide behind dishonest and phony labels such as “the moral majority” and "the party of family values” in order to dupe their constituents, and attack all that disagree with them.
I’m starting to deeply resent those Americans who are not catching on to this dog and pony show, which results in handing our government over to those more concerned with self-gain than the national welfare. If people are going to call themselves “patriotic” and “good Americans” and truly wish to preserve this nation and the values fostered by our Founding Fathers, it’s time they starting putting the needs of the nation before their allegiance to party. It is that blind allegiance that allows people to believe any kind of outrageous statements made about those who are “not us,” while trusting in the blatant lies and hypocrisies of those claiming to be like them, yet who are only really interested in power, power and more power!
I have news for a few. Liberal does not mean “uncaring and Godless,” and conservative does not mean "moral and righteous!” It’s time to judge our leaders, as well as “all” people, on who and what they are, and not the words that flow from their mouths as smoothy as hissing from a snake. It’s the attachment to values by rote, rather than true conviction that allows people to be swayed by the Snake Oil salesmen disguised as paragons of virtue and morality. Words are cheap. A man is defined by his actions, not what comes out of his mouth.
"Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities."
~ Voltaire
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